Here are some of the thoughts that I battled with- Maybe you have been here too?
When you’re scrolling through social media, seeing everyone else’s “perfect” life. You start thinking, Why can’t I get it together like they do? What’s wrong with me? The devil whispers that no matter how hard you try, you’ll never measure up—and you start to believe it.
You know those parts of yourself you keep hidden, the messy pieces you’re terrified for anyone to see? I get it.
I’ve spent so much energy trying to look like I had it all together because deep down, I was scared. I thought, If people knew the truth—about the shame, the struggles, the things I wish I could erase—they’d leave. So, I kept performing, kept pretending.
But carrying that weight in secret?
It’s exhausting.
Have you ever been afraid to even pray, because you’re certain all God sees is your failures? I have. I remember sitting there, feeling this ache in my chest, terrified to ask God who He thought I was because I just knew He’d remind me of every mistake, every sin, every place I’d fallen short. That voice—the one that says His love isn’t for someone like you—it’s a liar. But it feels so real when you’re in it, doesn’t it?
I get this struggle more than you know... because I’ve been there, too.
The weight of constant self-doubt, that nagging voice telling you you're not enough, and the pressure of feeling like you’re failing—every. single. day.
It’s exhausting, isn’t it?
For years, I was trapped in that cycle.
I questioned my worth, my voice, and even the closeness I felt with God.
I wondered if I’d ever find peace.
But everything changed the moment I decided to invest in a coach.
That’s when I had this powerful realization: I didn’t have to keep living up to everyone else’s expectations.
I could choose my own beliefs, speak my truth without apology, and—most importantly—I could do it all without losing my connection to God.
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A few days ago, I sat down with my journal and wrote what I imagined the enemy might say to keep me stuck, like a little Screwtape letter just for me.
And let me tell you—it hit close to home.
Ever feel like the enemy knows exactly where your weak spots are and how to keep you spinning in circles?
Here’s what I imagined he’d say:
“Don’t convince her to blatantly turn away from God—that’s too obvious. Just keep her busy, distracted, and overwhelmed. Make her think she’s too tired to read the Bible, too hurt to forgive, and too stuck to move forward. Feed her frustration, whisper that she deserves to stay bitter. Keep her scrolling through her feed, comparing herself to everyone else, feeling less than, and more distant from God’s promises. Little by little, she’ll pull away—until she’s numb, disconnected, and too distracted to notice what she’s missing.”
And you know what?
I felt my chest tighten because, in some ways, that’s exactly where I’ve been.
It’s not that I don’t want to read God’s Word.
It’s that I get so weighed down by hurt, so wrapped up in everything else.
And that’s exactly the enemy’s goal, isn’t it?
To keep us too distracted to hear from the One who can heal us.
To let the weight of unresolved hurt steal the joy God so desperately wants for us.
Maybe you’ve been there too.
Maybe there’s a wound you haven’t quite healed from yet—a harsh word, a betrayal, or a disappointment you just can’t shake.
If so, I want you to hear this: I’m so sorry. What happened wasn’t right. And it’s okay to acknowledge that pain.
But here’s what I’m learning: while we can’t control what others do—or don’t do—next, we can control what we hold on to.
And if we’re holding on to the hurt, the lies,
and the bitterness,
we’re giving the enemy more power than he deserves.
The truth is, God’s Word isn’t just a nice thing to read when we have time—it’s the very thing that equips us to break free from those lies.
It’s where we find hope and healing.
It’s where we reclaim the peace the enemy tries to steal.
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Imagine 6 months from now—what would it look like if you started today?
I know, sometimes the thought of change feels overwhelming.
Like, how could anything be different when things feel so stuck right now?
But here’s the thing: it’s in the small, intentional steps we take every day that change begins to unfold.
Not too long ago, I was feeling just like you might be now—stuck, questioning my worth, and unsure of my next step. I didn’t know how to move forward, and honestly, I was scared of facing some of the deep, uncomfortable truths about myself.
I held onto things—old beliefs, past hurts, and expectations—that didn’t serve me. I couldn’t see how anything would ever shift.
But then, I decided to make a choice.
It wasn’t a huge, dramatic decision—it was just a simple, quiet choice to start changing my mindset.
To stop living for others’ expectations. To believe that I am worthy of growth, peace, and wholeness.
And here’s what happened: little by little, I began to feel more at peace.
I started noticing that the things I thought were holding me back were actually just beliefs I had been telling myself for far too long. Slowly but surely, I uncovered my true identity—the one that’s rooted in who God says I am, not what others expect me to be.
Six months from now, I want you to imagine yourself with the same courage to take those small, uncomfortable steps.
What if, just like me, you took that first leap of faith and decided to confront the beliefs and fears that have been keeping you stuck?
The future doesn’t have to be some distant, unreachable place.
It can start now, today. Just one small step at a time.
And I promise you, if you trust God with those steps, He will meet you there.
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Okay, friend, here’s how it goes: In our sessions, we create a safe space where you can explore your beliefs, values, and goals—without judgment. I blend spiritual guidance with practical tools like the CTFAR model (Circumstances, Thought, Feeling, Action, and Result) to help you get unstuck, overcome challenges, and feel more connected to your faith. We’ll dive deep into those “tough spots” you’re working through and make sure that every step you take aligns with what really matters to you. You’ll walk away with clarity, confidence, and a sense of peace that guides your journey ahead.
I totally get it – you want results, and you want them now! The great news is, you’ll probably start seeing shifts within the first few sessions. Sometimes, just a few changes in the way you think or approach things can make a big impact. But if you’re looking for long-lasting transformation, coaching works best when you commit to the process for a few months. You’ve got to be ready to work through things at your own pace—and, trust me, the results will be worth it..
I’m an active member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, so yes, a lot of my teachings are rooted in those principles. But let me be clear: my coaching is inclusive. Whether you come from a different faith, are just beginning to explore spirituality, or don’t follow a specific belief system, I’m here for you. We’ll honor your beliefs and values, and we’ll make sure the coaching process supports the unique spiritual path you’re walking.
Life coaching is forward-focused and action-oriented. Instead of digging into past traumas or diagnosing conditions, we work together to identify your current thought patterns and create a plan for moving forward. Coaching helps you find solutions, build resilience, and move in alignment with your values and faith. And if you’re already seeing a therapist, that’s wonderful! Coaching and therapy can go hand in hand, supporting your growth in different but complementary ways.
Expect to be heard. We’ll talk about what’s on your heart, what’s going on in your life, and the goals you’re working towards. I’ll ask powerful questions that help you dig deeper into the “why” behind your feelings, so we can get clear on what’s blocking you from moving forward. By the end of the session, we’ll have developed a plan to help you take the next step with confidence. It’s all about helping you make shifts that lead to the life you want.
Oh, I get it. Spiritual crisis or questioning can feel like the ground is shifting under your feet. Coaching can be a lifeline during these times. We’ll create a non-judgmental space where you can voice your doubts, worries, and questions. We’ll work through what’s causing the uncertainty, and I’ll help you uncover your own beliefs, values, and spiritual direction. It’s about helping you find clarity, trust in your journey, and get to a place of peace, knowing that your spiritual path is your own—and you’re not alone on it.
Yes, absolutely! I offer free 20-minute mini sessions where we can chat about what’s on your heart, dive into what you’re struggling with, and see if coaching is the right fit for you. You can book a time that works for you right on my calendar—no pressure, just a chance for us to connect!
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